The Choice is Yours Mod

MOD

Stop quests from starting automatically.

You'll need to keep your eyes and ears open and figure it out on your own (quest markers that appear after you've started the quest are unchanged and will still show up once you've begun the quest).

If you decline a quest, you can still change your mind and choose to pursue it at any point in the future.

The Choice is Yours — The Choice is Yours screenshot